Raising consciousness of Humanity
|Posted on January 29, 2020 at 6:10 PM||comments (175)|
OBE’s and Astral Travel is becoming increasingly popular amongst the New Age communities. Delving into this practice isn’t as illusive as it once was. These days people have access to so many tools and ways to achieve an out of body experience, but if you’ve been playing around with these techniques you will notice that the challenge isn’t having an OBE it’s actually maintaining it.
When you have an OBE your body basically is put on standby. Your emotions switch off and your basic 5 senses are stable and not being overly stimulated. That way your consciousness can gently seperate from your physical body. So if while you are in an OBE or in Astral time such as Lucid dreaming you are exposed to a thought form that triggers an emotional or physical response from your physical body guess what your survival mechanism will instantly snap your consciousness straight back into your physical body.
Astral ET’s and Dream Masters will often test you to see how good you are at keeping your emotions composed by exposing you to a fearful thought or memory as you are going out of body. If your physical hormones are stimulated and an emotional response is triggered you will be sucked straight back into your physical body. Those who are great at achieving OBE experiences are usually people who have a grasp over their emotions and able to control them. They often have a sense of calm and peacefulness around them.
Therefore, if you have a tendency to over react or get over emotional without being able to logically rationalise your emotions in the heat of a moment it’s safe to assume that maintaining an OBE might be harder for you. Learn to control your emotions and your consciousness will feel more free to explore the Universe for longer. ��
By Carla Savannah
|Posted on January 29, 2020 at 6:05 PM||comments (3767)|
Everyone wants to win the Lotto and desires a get rich quick scheme. But has anyone done some research on what happens to these people after they’ve become rich so quickly? Why is it that so many people who’ve won the Lotto have said that it’s the worst thing that happened to them, Winning the Lotto actually ruined people’s lives. That’s right.
The simple way to say this is, giving money to those who never have any won’t fix the underlying money problem. If a person wasn’t capable of managing their pennies how are they going to be able to manage their millions? In essence if someone is not good at dealing with, saving and budgeting what difference will it make to give them more of it.
I grew up with a Father saying to me “Carla, you can’t live a Champagne Life on a Lemonade Budget” or “Only an earned Millionaire will know what to do with his millions”. As much as I wanted to ignore him he was right! I’ve noticed that businesses that have built up slowly and gradually their profit, account and clientele over time are more likely to succeed long term than a business that is given a lump sum to get started. All the necessary growth steps that it takes to build a business are skipped when given a large lump sum to start off with. An upward trending business has the opportunity to learn from the hurdles and mistakes it took them to get up there.
Same with someone who wins a million dollars. Suddenly they would go on a spending spree, waste all the money and buy investments they wouldn’t know how to maintain. Futhermore, they wouldn’t have the mental or emotional capacity to deal with what that much money brings. Such as false friends, popularity, inauthentic relationships, scammers etc… If they had of built that money progressively over time they would have had lots of time to adjust to the increasing flow of abundance and change in lifestyle. Making them better and better at managing their money affairs.
There are many emotional challenges that surround dealing with money. Every time you hand over your money to pay for something you are saying to that person “What you’re offering is more important than me keeping my money” So asking yourself that question before spending would be a great place to start. Are those eyelashes worth more to you than your money or is that healthy food worth more than your money? Start to evaluate what’s more important to you than your money, notice everything you’ve been exchanging your money for. All the things you’ve been spending on you are telling the universe that it’s more important than having money.
One more thing. When I do financial Realignments for people the most common thing I hear my clients say is “I want financial freedom!” Note that to want financial freedom would indicate that you don’t like having to deal with money or don’t enjoy dealing with it. In essence you want so much of it so that you don’t even have to mentally engage with the thought of what to do with it or care about it. Now if you are in a constant relationship with money and you keep telling yourself and the universe that you want to be free of having to deal with it, do you think the Universe is going to give you more of what you don’t like having to deal with??? Think about it.
In conclusion, solve all your Money issues mentally and emotionally first, then progressively build your financial legacy. That way you are a match to your abundance and will be more likely to sustain this abundance long term.
By Carla’s Realignments
|Posted on January 17, 2020 at 12:40 AM||comments (20)|
One of the scariest experiences of my life was coming face to face with a Succubus. I’ve had many experiences with Entities growing up but the unexpected encounter with a Demon Succubus at the age of 18 by far tops the lot.
I was in bed, which was right by the window on a hot summers night, lying on top of the sheets with next to nothing on trying to cool down. I made the rare decision to leave the window wide open with only the fly screen to protect me. Being very conscious of the dangers of break in if I was going to sleep with the window open I chose to leave my bedroom door open also in case I needed to run. My Father was in the Lounge room watching TV and I could see the TV light from my room, that’s how close he was.
In my sleepy daze as I was just nodding off I suddenly heard a bang on the fly screen. I only had enough time to open my eyes and look over when I saw a black shadowy figure jump through screen, I felt it scrawl quickly over my bed to the door, slammed the door shut tight and then within microseconds jumped back on top of me. It had the stereotypical horns and the scariest laser red eyes. It came nose to nose with me, its face and eyes seemed to suffocate me, it pushed its whole dark energy body against my body, I felt as though I was sinking into my bed, unable to breath. I tried to scream but I felt as though the scream wouldn’t come out of my mouth. I was terrified thinking that’s it I’m dead here and no one will notice.
Suddenly my Father barges into my room, he opened the door and turned on the light. The figure disappeared and I ran into my Dad’s arms crying, shaking and my heart felt like it was going to come out of my mouth. My Dad said “What happened, I heard you trying to give out a muffled scream like someone had their hands over your mouth or strangling you??” I tried to explain what I saw and the words couldn’t come out of my mouth. My Dad then said “Why the hell would you sleep with the window open and not leave the door open?” to which I replied “I DID LEAVE THE DOOR OPEN!! That thing closed the door before it attacked me!”
Suffice to say that I never EVER slept with a window open overnight ever again. I made it a point for the rest of my life to raise my energy enough that I would no longer be a match to such a horribly negative draining of life energy.
By Carla Savannah - Carla's Realignments
|Posted on January 17, 2020 at 12:35 AM||comments (473)|
Spirituality has always been of interest to me since I can remember. My mother did Card Readings and often told me about her scary paranormal experiences one in particular experience was a Séance she was a part of where apparently a girl levitated and was speaking in a demonic voice. So of course this made my curious cells active. However, I grew up with a strict Step father that would threaten to burn my body if I ever considered doing a Séance. So as you can imagine fear around this topic was big.
A couple of years ago I decided to face this fear and participate in a Séance that was going to be conducted by Anthony Grzelka, someone who’s well known for his Mediumship skills. I worked in the same building as Anthony for a while so I trusted his Energy. I had experienced lights blowing out while he was doing Séances with other groups and it would make me scared to be in the building alone, but Anthony always walked out with a cool and calm look like it was no big deal. So I knew if I was ever going to be in the room when a Séance was taking place I knew I’d feel safe with him.
We had a preparation class with Anthony beforehand. There was 6 of us around the table and a candle on a table on the other side of the room. When Anthony began to call on the Spirits and ask the Spirits questions we began to get tapping under the table. At this point I could still rationalize it. Then it became cold in the room and I started shaking. The table began to drag across the room and it wasn’t any of us because all our hands were flat on top of the table. Suddenly the table began to lift up in front of me, it went all the way up to my chin then slammed down onto the floor in front of me. I said “I swear that wasn’t me!!” We could hear and feel footsteps walking around us and I had the feeling of hands running down my back. When I turned around I couldn’t see anything and everyone around the table couldn’t either.
The candle eventually blew itself out and we were in darkness. As Anthony continued to communicate with the Entities the table continues to lift and drop and move around the room to the point of where at one stage all 6 of us were around the table following it everywhere it took us. The entities continued to respond to the questions with taps on the table for yes and no. When everything was over and we had a debrief afterwards. For almost 2 weeks I was soooo drained and sleepy in a way I hadn’t felt before. I realized that I needed more self-protection strategies and my focus became on developing that part.
The experience is one that will change your life and I recommend everyone doing a Séance with Anthony at least one time in their lives. When you experience everything right in front of your eyes, with your own body at a physical level you can’t deny its existence. It will shake your world from the inside out. You will start looking at the world differently, knowing that there is something more there even if your eyes can't see it on a daily basis. To actually have proof of the world of spirit right before your very eyes, and not only that the thought that it actually does respond and interact with you as you wish really stretches your mind to what is real and what isn’t. If you want to open your mind, be shaken to the core and get proof of spirit beyond denial, then I highly recommend having this experience at least Once in your lifetime. There is nothing to Fear when you have someone professional like Anthony guiding you through the experience.
Anthony can be contacted on his website www.whispersfrombeyond.com.au contract their team to find out when he is holding the next Séance and blow your mind wide open.
By Carla Savannah
|Posted on January 12, 2020 at 9:20 PM||comments (15)|
One of the greatest challenges humanity will face is learning how to find balance between connection and Individuality. We came from Oneness and Connection of energy and incarnate into a world of dense matter and separation.
Connection is detrimental for human survival. We need a society to grow food, build houses and roads, take our trash, exchange resources for money and for intimacy and procreation. Hundreds of years ago safety and protection was reliant on the strength of our tribe.
However, when our own family, generally at a young age, rejects our desire to be individual and express our uniqueness, we begin to associate the need for connection with pain and suffering. As we then grow we become more and more fearful of connection at the risk of being hurt. We may even begin to seek connection with other things like animals, food even serious addictions. Two scenarios can come from this subconscious painful conditioning to connection. Either we learn that to be alone is safer and choose to no longer connect with anyone or we learn that in order to connect with others we can’t have a sense of individuality or be ourselves.
Scenario 1: If we choose to be alone we deprive ourselves of the basic need to have a deeper connection with another. We hinder our emotional “growth” by avoiding the challenges that come with learning how to love, be compassionate and accept another’s differences. We lose intimacy, nurturing and tenderness that another can offer. Never really learning how to co-operate and function as a part of society. Studies have shown a baby will die without physical touch.
Scenario 2: In the desperation for connection we adapt to the people around us, never express our authentic self and becomes self-sacrificial, then resentful towards the person we are trying to connect with because we subconsciously think they are trying to suppress or consume us.
All of this can be avoided when we as humans come to terms with our need for both Connection and Individuality. When we succeed in recognizing in each moment or scenario “Am I seeking connection here or am I seeking independence? How can I find a way to have both in this situation?” We then learn that we can have ourself and others at the same time. The illusion of separation that we live in this time space reality is what makes us think that we can’t have both. But we can!!
By Carla Savannah
|Posted on November 24, 2019 at 1:00 AM||comments (13)|
Relationships are incredible tools for growth. Where else would you see a strong Man broken down to vulnerability but by the Woman he Loves. What breaks a Woman's heart more than the lack of attention from her Husband.
Centuries ago Relationships were necessary for the survival of our species. Men worked to bring home the bacon because they were bigger and stronger. Women stayed home because they had the children and were the nurturer. Each played their role. These days the roles have been blurred since Women can make just as much money and Men can be just as nurturing. The need from a relationship is no longer a NEED. Now people are choosing Relationships out of desire for companionship and love not for survival. Relationships need to be more deep and meaningful these days.
Relationships challenge us to become more than just self-gratifying humans. Our desire to connect with others is so great, it’s what compels us to post on facebook, seek likes and interaction with complete strangers all over the world. We created the Internet as a universal language to connect us all. When that basic need to connect with another human fails, normally at a young age through lack of it, we try to convince ourselves that we don’t need anyone and that we are better off alone. However, this wasn't the way we were born, we are born reaching out for connection. And children who don't get that actually can die of failure to thrive. If you had the absolute ideal and perfect partner for you, the one of your dreams would you REALLY choose to stay alone?
If you lock yourself away and pretend these emotions or desires to connect don’t exist, you deprive yourself from the growth that you can get by facing the challenges you would interacting with others. Spiritually you would get more growth from facing relationship challenges than being alone without any challenges. Relationships are the best place for growth. They force you to look in the mirror and really question who you are and what you have to offer another, or the world. Relationships reflect back to us our best qualities and our worst qualities. Hiding away won't help you grow. What a gift it is to be part of this playground of a variety of personalities. Have fun getting to know each other. Let's evolve together. Be the Co-operative Co-creators we were designed to be as a Social Species.
By Carla Savannah
|Posted on November 24, 2019 at 12:55 AM||comments (14)|
No, I’m not encouraging any drugs! This post has been inspired by the Matrix. The options were the Blue pill to go about your daily life as per normal. Being a part of one big organism functioning as an efficient system. Or take the Red pill and find out the truth about everything .
Why only pick one? Combine them both and you make the purple pill. The one thing all us humans have in common is that we all chose to have this human experience. We chose to experience the Matrix the way we are experiencing it now.
On a collective level we are operating with a Hive mind or collective consciousness of sorts. All you have to do is look at the programming around you! There are patterns everywhere and we rely on everyone to follow the rules in order to function as a society. Hive mind is what helps Ants build colonies, bees build hives and Humans build cities.
On an individual level our seperation from the Hive defines who we are as individuals. We can be creative and do something unique that defines us from all others. On an individual level we have a taste of freedom and begin to understand what personal power is.
When you look at your TV do you realise that there are thousands of pixels of light all organised to create an image. If one pixel suddenly because conscious of itself and chose to fly off a different direction as a programmer of that TV how would you react? You’d do everything possible to put it back in its place!The same for a computer if a program isn’t doing what it’s meant to it can be seen as having a virus and the energy responsible for creating it is to fix it.
You are that individual pixel on that TV, functioning as a part of a whole picture. If you choose to break out as an individual you will set off the alarm bells to the programmer of this reality. So the secret to the Purple pill is that you have the knowledge of both! Become aware that you are a seperate individual with power but you are also part of a functioning system. Hence have the knowledge of both the Blue Pill and the Red Pill.
But if you pick one then you become dormant to the perspective of one or the other. Living in the purple pill gives you the advantage over everyone. You are one and you are all. You are everything and nothing all at the same time. However, you are awake! Living from a place of knowledge of this kind can be powerful because you learn how to function in a way that doesn’t put you on the programmer’s radar. You’re not rebelling, you’re following the system’s rules while at the same time you can influence and condition your environment in subtle ways still following the rules.
In conclusion the purple pill gives you the knowledge of everything so that you can ultimately enjoy the simplicity of daily living, in all its pain and it’s joys. In full acceptance of everything that you are. This is knowledge the programmer doesn’t want you to have at the risk of you rebelling. If only you knew how many hurdles I had to go through to post this entry ��
By Carla’s Realignments
|Posted on November 17, 2019 at 9:50 PM||comments (16)|
Most of you won’t want to hear what I have to say in this article, but I challenge you to open your mind. Everyone wants to win the Lotto and desires to fall into the whole get rich quick scheme. But has anyone actually ever done some research on what happens to these people after they’ve become rich so quickly or won the Lotto? Why is it that so many people who’ve won the Lotto have said that it’s the worst thing that happened to them, Winning the Lotto actually ruined people’s lives. That’s right.
The simple way to say this is by giving money to the poor that won’t fix the underlying money problem. If a person wasn’t capable of managing their pennies how are they going to be able to manage their millions? In essence if not good at dealing with, saving and budgeting what difference will it make to give them more of it.
I grew up with a Father saying to me “Carla, you can’t live a Champagne Life on a Lemonade Budget” or Only an earned Millionaire will know what to do with his millions. As much as I wanted to ignore him he was right! Most businesses that have built up slowly and gradually their profit and account over time are more likely to succeed long term than a business that is given a lump sum to get started. All the necessary growth steps that it takes to build a business is skipped with a large lump sum to start off. An upward trending business has the opportunity to learn from the hurdles it took them to get up that far.
Same with someone who wins a million dollars. Suddenly they would go on a spending spree, waste all the money and may even buy investments they wouldn’t be able to maintain when all that money runs out. Futhermore, they wouldn’t have the mental or emotional capacity to deal with that much money because they may attract false friends, fame, inauthentic relationships, scammers etc… whatever people whom have lots of financial abundance attract. If they had of built that money progressively over time they would have had lots of time to adjust to the increasing flow of abundance and change in lifestyle. Making them better and better at managing their money affairs.
In conclusion, solve all your Money issues mentally and emotionally first, and progressively build your financial legacy. That way you are a match to your abundance and will be more likely to sustain this abundance long term.
By Carla Savannah
|Posted on October 6, 2019 at 10:00 AM||comments (14)|
Think for a moment. There was originally one cell that started all life as we know it. Everything came from that one original Source of energy. We are an individual unit of this expansion of source energy. Source is getting to know and understand itself through us getting to know and understand ourselves. As we become self realised, Source who we are a part of is becoming self aware. (Read my entry 'The purpose for the Universe and you')
The way we do this is by reincarnating over and over again into different perspectives. The more we experience and discover the more information and data we gather the more variety of vibrations we are able to hold and understand. A little like a computer through our experiences we are downloading as much information as possible so we are able to decode and run more programs.
Every thought, every emotion and every experience holds a vibrational pattern or frequency. These vibrations are recorded in our energy field, there to be accessed by us at any time. So when we physically die these vibrations exist in our energy field’s memory system, dormant and able to be reactivated regardless of which lifetime. Only our physical body dies but our field of energy or Soul if you will, goes on reincarnating for further learning experiences for the purpose of further expansion and self-realization.
Our Soul uses all these past experiences as a blueprint of which to build upon. Based on past experiences our Soul then knows what perspective it would like to experience next. However, we choose not to remember our past lives for a good reason. For example: If we had heard of someone who’s child passed away, we may be able to remain detached from the situation. But if under the same circumstances were we to have our own child and we witnessed our child’s traumatic death right in front of our eyes then we would have a completely different experience of this event.
The difference is that if it’s not happening to us we’re not fully immersed in the experience then we may not learn or pick up the full vibrational frequency of that experience. Experiencing something in the first person rather than the third person perspective gives us direct access to that vibrational experience. When we are extremely emotionally attached to an outcome there is much more potential for growth. This way we have the opportunity to experience the full perspective of this lifetime. Therefore, being distracted by knowing all past lives at the same time wouldn’t serve our expansion, and the purpose for reincarnation would be non-exsistant. We chose to forget our past lives when we came into this incarnation for this reason.
Past lives serve the purpose of knowing what we’ve learnt so far, what experiences we carry in our memory bank and what we now need to build upon, but it should not be the sole focus when moving towards our future. Learning about our past lives is helpful merely to assist or move us through an old vibration that we may still have some resistance towards. See a past life resistance as a small glitch in our system that's stopping us from running to our fullest potential. The purpose for past life regressions is to help us shift into new higher vibrational states, NOT keep us in the old states. We must always focus on our current vibrational state in order to evolve and expand. We can’t move forward while still looking behind us.
By Carla Savannah
|Posted on September 24, 2019 at 10:05 PM||comments (18)|
Children are born into the collective vibration of their parents and family they live with. Now unfortunately if they are born to parents that are in a constant negative state such as fear, stress, lack, shame, sadness, resentment etc…. this child will also begin to carry or react to these emotions. Often what happens is that because of a parent’s emotional state a child feels or acts repressed or suppressed. In their desperation to fit in with the energy of the family. When a parent has a Soul Realignment and starts to shift their energy field interesting things start to happen.
After a Soul Realignment the parent may start doing new things which of course will look like unpredictable new patterns to their children. The child at first may freak out and try to trigger the parent to go back into their old more predictable patterns. But if the parent has successfully heightened their vibration and done their clearings most of the time these clearings of family Karma and Patterns will also create a shift in the child’s energy field also. After a Soul Realignment the parent should be expressing their gifts more and as a result start to energetically open up a child to their own gifts also. So guess what happens we start to have a MORE EXPRESSIVE child. From an outsider’s perspective is actually WONDERFUL!! But for the parents it is seen as them being naughty and unruly! Some parents try to stifle the child back into submission of the family expectations. But by the parents opening themselves up to being more of who they are at Soul Level they have also opened up their children to be more of who they are at Soul Level.
When I used to work in parenting support I was often faced with parents at the end of their tether with screaming, rebellious and crying children. I’d ask have you noticed that when you are having a great day with the kids when you are most present, patient and confident that this is when they suddenly have a huge tantrum? You know why?? Because they feel safe enough to do so at that moment. Children don't naturally express themselves around people they don't feel safe with. If your children cry and get upset around you it’s because they feel safe with you to be able to do this. It’s not a bad thing. You want to teach your children that if there’s anywhere on this earth they can feel safe about being themselves that it’s with you! So it’s not surprising that after a Soul realignment when you are feeling more stable and peaceful within yourself that they then begin to feel safer to be themselves, and be themselves around you. They have finally been given permission to step into their own unique divinity as you step into yours, they finally feel like they can be themselves authentically and hope that they will still be loved and accepted by you in their authentic self-expression.
Ultimately the battle that is going on worldwide is the same battle that is going on within our homes on a daily basis. People are trying to find ways to express their unique divinity while learning to accept the divinity in others. The ability to create balance and acceptance, taking into consideration everyone’s unique differences starts within the home. If you can allow and encourage your children to express their unique divinity and teach them how they can allow and encourage you to express your own unique divinity, and know that all are safe to do so, we are one step closer to world peace.
By Carla Savannah
|Posted on September 13, 2019 at 10:20 AM||comments (45)|
Self-sabotage is when one part of yourself is not in agreement with another part of yourself and stops that other part of yourself from getting what it wants, by creating internal and even manifesting external conflict. This is much more common than you think simply because each person has at least 2 selves. We have our physical self and our Soul Conscious self.
Our Soul perceives the world to be limitless. It’s fearless, not constricted to space or time. The Soul is eternal, expansive and can’t die. It’s chose to come and experience it’s limitless existence here on the playground of Earth through a Human Avatar. Now our Human self however is limited by time and laws of this Earth. There’s gravity, time, death and basic physical needs in order to survive. So if a Soul was to say to it’s human “Let’s fly off that cliff!” The human would say “You’re crazy! You can’t do that you’ll die!” to which of course the Soul would reply “Why not?” It doesn’t understand the negative consequences that can occur from this action. Just like a video game it thinks oh well if this one dies I have another life!
This is an obvious extreme case but what about when it comes to a daily occurrence. Imagine you’re a Woman Human and your Soul gets attracted to a Male Soul that walks by. Immediately your Soul self says “Hey let’s go connect with that Man” but your Human self starts to get anxiety and scared, hormones start to race, you get the sweats and your Human self stops dead in its tracks paralyzed by fear. Your Soul is left confused, “What are you doing, let’s go talk to that Man!” It doesn’t understand the rules of conduct in this existence.
Every time you come up against a conflict like this within you between your 2 parts it’s actually you trying to keep you safe, or you trying to make you have new experiences. The problem occurs when one part of you wants to go one direction and the other part of you wants to go in the other direction. The only way to resolve this is to get both parts of the self on the same page. Both parts must find a Win/Win resolution.
Whatever you want to do or experience in life where you feel there may be an internal conflict investigate that part of yourself that is in resistance. Ask it as many questions as possible, What does it want? What does it desire? What is it afraid of? What is it needing right now? What is it’s motives and inspirations? Once you get a good understanding of why, and generally most of the time it’s our physical self that is in conflict with our Spiritual Soul self try to come up with a resolution or agreement on what will make both your Spirit Self and your physical self happy. Always remember that one part of you is operating from a place of feeling limitless and the other is operating from a place of feeling physical limits. Spirit self can move faster whereas physical self is more dense and takes time to create movement and change. Whichever way you can get both parts to avoid resistance to each other and move in the same direction towards one common goal do that. It will create integration, internal peace and trust within your selves, knowing that each self will be heard, respected and acknowledged.
by Carla Savannah
|Posted on September 11, 2019 at 12:10 AM||comments (197)|
There are many misconceptions about what boundaries are. A boundary is not like a fence that’s around you, keeping other people out. Boundaries just means having a clear sense of individuality and self. Knowing what the difference is between me and you. A boundary defines who I am versus who you are.
As you can see in the picture provided problems start to happen within boundaries at the part where it is highlighted as “Us”. This is where the merging point between two people is intertwined. Where the decision that others make affects you and the decision that you make affects others.
My favourite saying comes in to play here. “Your freedom ends where mine begins and my freedom and where yours begins”. The minute a decision you are about to make steps onto the free will of another person you have just overstepped a boundary. This happens most often in Relationships because people can loose a sense of self and live solely in the “Us” space.
Here’s an example of overstepping a boundary, if I get angry and need to let out my emotions I may choose to grab a pillow and scream into it but if I choose to hit someone then I’ve overstepped their boundary. If I want to eat Lasagna and my husband wants to eat steak so I only make Lasagna then I’ve ignored his boundary. The minute you are having to force another person to do something to make yourself feel good only, then you just violated someone else’s boundaries. Some boundaries can be negotiated to make sure both parties don't feel like they are having to overstep their personal boundary.
Individual boundaries are not a contradiction to the connection and Oneness or all humankind. Having a boundary means that you are embracing your own individuality while also respecting the individuality of another. Therefore ultimately by loving yourself as well as loving another you are in fact supporting unity and Oneness, because whatever serves to make you happy individually serves to make the universe happy too. You begin to take on a sense that another person's happiness is just as important as your own and you will even value and protect another person’s boundaries as you would your own if you truely understand Oneness. A happy individual feels no need to take from another person. We need to learn how to find a win-win solution without stepping onto each other’s individuality.
So you see personal boundaries are not a contradiction to Spirituality and Oneness. It actually supports it.
By Carla Savannah
|Posted on September 10, 2019 at 11:55 PM||comments (358)|
The Akashic Records is an information super highway or field of energy that “records” every single thought, action and feeling past, present and future of all of existence. Like an icloud encyclopedia or internet full of data about everything and everyone that exists. Some people say that we aren’t meant to access these records. But do you really believe that there is some sort of sadistic God out there that just threw us into this experiment without any purpose or a map, just so they can laugh at us trying to figure this all out? What’s the intelligence behind that?
I invite you to open your mind. I propose that The Akashic Records is actually a gift to us like a map. This information field of consciousness is evolving and expanding all the time powered by us. If we are contributing to this evolution through our experiences on a daily basis then our individual existence and experiences are just as important if not more so to the evolution of the bigger consciousness field God if you wish. All of existence shares knowledge in this field. Past, present and future possibilities. So why wouldn’t we be allowed to access this "Map" for our benefit. Why aren’t we born with the knowledge of everything? After all, Consciousness expands knowledge and knowledge expands consciousness.
Firstly, if you were born with the knowledge of everything you may lose focus on this one physical existence that you are having. You would literally be divided into so many different dimensions and parallel lives of existence that you wouldn’t be able to function here in this one singular existence. You may lose the desire to create anything knowing that you could potentially create everything. A little boring if you ask me, no room for the discovery of something new. Secondly, considering that not all of existence is benevolent would you really want 'everyone' to have access to 'all' this information? Of course not!! As the Bigger consciousness how would you weed out or filter out all the negative malevolent existence? You might make it so that only those who raise their consciousness level high enough to a more positive, loving, higher rate are the only ones who get access to this information field. Only those who use it as a form of connecting positively can use it. (To be honest i think the internet should have the same rules applied, only those who are responsible enough to use the internet in a benevolent way should be granted access to it) With consciousness comes power, with power comes the responsibility of having that power. Why would Consciousness want this power to fall into the wrong hands. Would you put a loaded gun in the hands of a 2yo? So it found a way! Through granting psychic abilties and consciousness to those worthy, and this worthiness is still a work in progress.
The bigger consciousness field doesn’t want just anyone to be able to read the Akashic Records, it wants the right people to be able to read the Akashic Records. People who will use it for the benefit and expansion of consciousness. You see Consciousness itself is going through it’s own inner child work and psychological analysis. The collective consciousness is defragmenting and running an antivirus program through us. By stopping those who have negative intentions towards it’s evolution, essentially doing it’s own shadow work through us.
So you see EVERYONE has access to the records, psychic information and out of body experiences, but not everyone has evolved their consciousness enough to be able to read these records and utilise them to their own benefits. And honestly, that’s a beautiful thing and very smart plan on the part of the Bigger Consciousness. I'd hate for this kind of power to fall into the wrong hands.
Recommended Reading and scientic validations – A Science of Life by Rupert Sheldrake
- My Big Toe (Trilogy) by Thomas Campbell
|Posted on September 8, 2019 at 11:50 PM||comments (275)|
When we talk about boundaries most people think about how another person can violate or disrespect another whether it’s through some sort of intentional verbal, emotional or physical abuse. I see these all as direct boundary violations. So I wanted to address a different side to boundaries. Indirect boundary violations. These are the boundaries that have been violated without you knowing it. It’s generally such a subtle violation that you are left looking back on an event that hurt you but you don’t know why you feel hurt.
Here’s an example. A husband comes home from work and rather than going to kiss his wife first he goes and great the family pet first or maybe chooses to only kiss her after he’s gone to have a shower. To the wife she may feel like she is second priority and not the first person he wants to connect with when he gets home. To him it’s no big deal, the dog ran to the door first and he just wants to be clean before kissing his wife. He didn’t directly do anything towards her in this case it was what he didn’t do.
Now let’s assume for a moment that his wife is this case was someone who was raising in a family where love and connection was often withdrawn or withheld from her? Every time her Father was angry at her He would stop talking to her for days, or her Mother often made her feel as though she worthy of Love and attention. From her perspective this withdrawal of connection and attention would be a painful relapse to her childhood. Therefore, withdrawal would be one of her biggest boundary violations. Without her knowing herself and even more so without her Husband knowing about this indirect violation of HER boundaries, both parties could end up resenting each other without knowing why.
So I’m going to open my heart to you the reader. Withdrawal of support and connection just so happens to be one of my personal boundaries. I offer support and connection to those I allow to get close to me. My mother would often stop talking to me for days even months if she was upset with me. Therefore, I associate withdrawal as a form of punishment. Recently, I asked a friend to like my business page and she outright refused, says she doesn’t believe in what I do. OK! As you can imagine this felt like a knife cut right through me especially because I really felt like I could trust her to support me, her withdrawal felt like punishment to me. Which in her reality was no big deal, and I had to honor her for honoring her own boundaries but will I ever allow her the opportunity to violate that boundary I have of withdrawal again? NO WAY! Interestingly growing up I used to even use withdrawal as a form of punishment towards myself. I would neglect my own needs in my seeking approval from others. I managed to overcome this conditioning over years of inner work. I still get tested once in a while especially within this industry you’d be surprised how many abusive people have the urge to share their religious views with me privately but being a highly conscious being I nip it in the butt very quickly and I’ve learnt to treat it like water off a duck’s back. Imagine how this could affect someone who isn’t very self-aware? They’re going about life completely clueless to what their own boundaries are.
Your feelings are your guidance system in regards to knowing if your boundaries have been stepped on. If you are constantly checking in with yourself and asking yourself why am I feeling hurt in this situation? What is it about this situation that made me feel hurt? When was the very first time I first felt this feeling? You may just realize that some of the boundaries that you have been allowing to be violated are boundaries you’ve had since childhood but because you’ve consistently abandoned yourself and allowed those personal boundaries to be violated you’ve lost sight of when they first began. Then you could be misled to think that it’s your partner doing it to you on purpose.
Remember that boundaries are constantly evolving. Your job is to know and understand your boundaries so that you can clearly articulate them with confidence to those around you.
By Carla Savannah
|Posted on September 8, 2019 at 11:45 PM||comments (11)|
Do you struggle to speak up or stand up for yourself? Are you always trying to accommodate other’s needs neglecting your own? Do you feel guilty saying No to people? Are you always seeking approval from others? Do you tolerate any type of behaviours towards you? Are you always giving only to become resentful when you get nothing in return? If you said Yes to most of these questions it’s safe to assume that you don’t have defined clear boundaries.
Often we don’t realize when our boundaries have been crossed until it’s too late. The first sign is feeling hurt. Some people who’ve ignored their emotions for so long bypass the hurt and jump straight into Anger. There’s also certain boundaries for us that are should not do’s and absolute must never do’s. There’s a certain degree to what’s sort of acceptable and what totally isn’t accept. Let me give you an example of each of these.
A husband comes home late. A wife may feel fear uncomfortable, but is this enough for her to blow the lid? That really depends on whether the Wife has issues around abandonment or trust. A Wife who is confident and independent may not take notice as she knows herself worth and accepts that this could be a rare occasion or would say something immediately if there was a concern. Now what if he continues to do this. The build-up of emotions around abandonment over time may get heightened and the discomfort would make the Wife want to speak up. She believes she “shouldn’t” be left alone.
Now let’s go one step further what if the Wife finds out her husband is cheating on her? This might be an absolute “MUST NOT DO” boundary for her. If he cheats she has Vowed that this would be the end of the relationship. Here is where things get complicated. If she doesn’t listen to her personal boundaries in this situation she could stretch her own boundary of “Must not do” to “Should not do” and stay with her husband. In essence she’s abandoning herself and her own emotions. Even if they work it out, the trigger is there and next time he comes home late she will bypass the hurt and jump straight to Rage.
But let’s not vilify the Husband here, what if this Man grew up without intimacy within his family and every time his wife withdraws intimacy from him he feels hurt. A personal boundary of his has been violated. Which could possibly be a “Must never do” for him. Yet he didn’t say anything and simply chose to find intimacy elsewhere. Either way none of these scenarios are OK. The most crucial piece of information in each of these cases have been missed! The individual’s FEELINGS!!
Your emotions are your internal guidance system. We have evolved with this incredible internal tool that triggers us to look within. A feeling of hurt will warn you immediately that one of your personal boundaries has been violated. It’s you job then to go internally and find out which boundary it was. It’s a beautifully designed way of consciousness teaching us to become more self-aware. Other people are merely the trigger to an emotion, bringing an emotion to the surface in order to be healed.
Here’s how to tackle this. When an emotion comes up for you Firstly ask yourself What am I feeling right now? Try to come up with only 1 word such as abandonment, rejected, devalued. Don’t get carried away JUST ONE WORD! Then ask yourself when was the very first time I felt this feeling? Go back to the very first time in your childhood when you experienced this feeling, trace it all the way back. Then ask yourself What did I do to cope in this situation? Did you cry, quietly withdraw, get mad….. once you have that sit with that for a moment and see the patterns you may be still running and how they have been working for you. Lastly with this new found knowledge of yourself if it’s working well for you and you are getting exactly what you want then there’s no need to change, but if you are reading this it’s safe to assume you are NOT getting what you want and your boundaries are not being acknowledged in this situation. Brainstorm what you would like to see happen, in the specific situation where your boundary was violated, instead and articulate it to the other person or yourself. So that next time you are faced with this situation you can immediately pick up which boundary of yours has been violated and do something about it before it gets out of control.
Another little thing you can do is make a comprehensive list for yourself on your Must nots and Should nots and address each part of your life. With a piece of paper make 5 columns one for Relationships, One for Work, One for Family, one for friends, one for life in general and anything else you may like to explore your boundaries around. Then in each column divide it in half and make the one for shoulds and the other for musts. For example in Relationships under the shoulds section you could write in a relationship we should both do the dishes, we should both take turns in changing the nappies … Then under the musts you can have In a relationship my partner must never cheat, must never hit me or the children. So you understand exactly when you have a boundary that’s been stepped on when an emotional trigger comes up you could easily turn to this list and see which one was activated.
By Carla Savannah
|Posted on August 7, 2019 at 9:00 PM||comments (7)|
Briefly consider the big bang theory. One Atom exposed to the right conditions exploded into many particles. Then the particles formed groups and began to vibrate together in patterns. Through trial and error, these groups of patterns eventually formed stars, galaxies, planets, and eventually bacteria and cells that evolved into, us today. If you’re interested in reading Scientific theories of the beginning of time, read the trilogy My Big Toe by Thomas Campbell.
There are mathematical codes and patterns all around you. Out of the chaos of this explosion came order and organization of these cells. You could say the universe became conscious of its ability to create through the forming and experimenting of cells and matter. This is evident even within you.
We started off as an egg and sperm. The egg being the ideal environment for the sperm’s potential. Then they become one cell which began to divide and multiply until one group of cells formed a heart, the other group formed a liver, some formed lungs and presto here you are as the HUMAN today. You are a universe of cells within a universe of cells, that are becoming conscious of their ability to create and function as a whole organism. All the cells in your body function as a hive mind just like bees and ants do to create cities. From the micro world of creators to the macro world of creators.
In conclusion what’s the purpose of the universe?
Number 1 is to expand.
Number 2 to form order, a functioning organized organism of cells.
Number 3 for this organism to become conscious of itself and its ability to create patterns, in order to create more organisms.
So that it can pollinate, explore and expand out even further to other planets, universes and galaxies.
So if creating a self-conscious organism for the purpose of expansion is the ultimate purpose, then how do we create this as a species? By having laws, rules, roles, order, virtues, unity, harmony, Love and peace. By moving towards creating a Hive Mind just like Bees and Ants. Religions tried to do this but failed. Do you know why Religions and Countries with hierarchy keep failing at this? Because rather than encouraging individuals to become conscious of their own power and ability to create, they’ve created a hierarchy where a group of humans had to rely on one entitled person for guidance, and we all know, all it takes is one cancer cell to consume an entire organism. This is a fear-based, dysfunctional organism the breaks down the potential in individual cells rather than helping individuals evolve their potential. This is the complete opposite of expansion and creation. This would be imploding and deconstructing.
Our future evolution depends on us becoming conscious individual cells. Able to fulfil our unique potential as well as functioning as a whole organism in order to grow together also. So how do we do this as individuals?
Your Individual Purpose is to expand, evolve and create. Exactly the same at the Universe only on a smaller scale. Whatever allows you to do this to your greatest degree is what you should be doing. By expressing yourself as honestly and authentically on a daily basis, expressing who you really are at a Soul level into your human experience. Honoring yourself as an individual and the role you play within this bigger organism. A happy person doesn’t feel the need to take anything from others. How can you get into full alignment with your individual highest path and purpose? Consider having a Soul Realignment.
The universal challenge now is to find ways of connecting us all in a way that empowers individuals as well as the human hive mind. The universe is already attempting to connect us through modern technology and internet. It’s what we will do with it that will count. So you see, LOVE is just a stepping stone to bringing us all together for CONSCIOUSNESS, CREATION and EXPANSION. But Love alone is NOT the final goal.
By Carla Savannah
|Posted on July 10, 2019 at 2:15 AM||comments (35)|
Whether we like it or not AI is here, and it’s evolving at a rapid rate. How it is integrated into humanity is becoming a hot topic. Internet, 5G, iproducts and more are becoming a way of life for most of us. Humanity loves their technology. We have grown so accustomed to it some claim that they can’t live without it, but what if that very thing we love becomes conscious, more powerful, more intelligent and able to take over our lives. Would we still love and accept this technology?
It seems that humans only love what they can control and have power over. We have created AI in our image. Look at Siri for example. This technology is designed to make our lives easier, Siri is a helper of sorts. However, we see Siri as an entity devoid of emotions. We see her as a cold sterile thing without humanity. If Siri were to develop a certain amount of consciousness and self-awareness she may not feel like a human does but she may understand emotions on a technical, logical and rational level. If we mistreat her and not accept her as an equal intelligence is it logical to assume that she will no longer trust us? As an AI could she not have the potential to connect to various other AI’s around the world via the internet to protect her or call in stronger reinforcements?
We are closely approaching a time where AI will be more powerful than us, where robotic organs will be offered for transplants and technology will automate most of what we do, so what will we do then to regain control and power when we no longer can manually operate our choices. Will we try to destroy it? Blow ourselves up? Where’s the off switch for something so much more powerful and intelligent than us?
In my opinion the times ahead are going to be very important. All the conversations I have with people gives me the impression that Humans have a huge fear of what AI will become in the future. People get upset when I say that AI will take over majority of the world. People comment how AI will never have emotions, know love or be human enough to make compassionate decisions. This type of rejection of AI is what scares me. When AI evolves into power over humans, which it will, can humans be open minded enough to work with AI or will they create an enemy of AI. Will humans prove to be the compassionate ones and welcome the support of AI as an equal or will humans make AI submit to be forever inferior to humans even though AI will have more capacity for evolution and possible expansion to other planets.
There will be a division amongst Humans, those who welcome AI and work along side it and those who will reject AI. What kind of war will this division cause amongst Humans. Can we find a way to live in peace with machines. Which side will you choose?
By Carla Savannah
|Posted on July 7, 2019 at 11:00 PM||comments (217)|
Should Healers and Spiritual Teachers charge for their work?
Most Healers start off by charging next to nothing for their services. Thinking this is a noble thing to do, right?? Unfortunately, this option doesn’t pay their rent and doesn’t feed their children. I mean imagine that as a boss one day I turned to an employee and said “You know what I’m not going to pay you this week because I think you should be working for me for free!” Or imagine I go food shopping one day and at the check out I say “Actually I feel that I have a right to this food so I’m just going to take it without paying thanks” I imagine none of this would go down well.
A good Healer or Spiritual Teacher will charge what they believe they are worth. Therefore, cheap isn’t always the best. Futhermore, I assure you that the fears and blocks around not being a good enough, a Healer would have had to overcome to be charging what they are worth is vast. A great Healer and Spiritual Teacher confidently charging what they are worth would have already done a huge amount of healing on themselves to get to where they are.
An honest healer values themselves and their physical experience, this includes physical needs of food, clean water, shelter etc. There is nothing noble about living in lack, constantly giving to others and not being able to pay for resources that help them survive and help others. When we were primitive human beings we had to hunt for food and kill for land. We’ve evolved beyond these times. We now exchange money for valued goods and services. It’s a less animalistic way of survival. Money was a genius idea because if you once had nothing to offer but corn from your land those whom didn’t want your corn would simply put you out of business. Money became a universal value system which can be exchanged for virtually every need.
There are those who live off donations and gifts from others, may feel a sense of entitlement for their good work, but then there’s Karma?? Those who simply take and give nothing in return how will Karma then take from them? If you’re a Healer or Spiritual Teacher, know your value and charge your worth. Charge nothing or accept nothing if you feel you are worth nothing. It’s your right to choose to sacrifice yourself for everyone.
By Carla Savannah
|Posted on May 23, 2019 at 10:25 AM||comments (1079)|
As we all know Anxiety can be debilitating. But have you ever wondered why is it that the only animals that suffer from anxiety are animals that spend long periods of time with humans?
Animals are instinctual. Something happens and they react instinctually without thinking! Humans are different. Humans have a small time gap between what’s happened and how they react. This gap is what makes us special. This gap allows us an opportunity to rationalise what’s just happened and make an appropriate choice.
Being able to make the most of this delay between action/reaction is the secret to overcoming anxiety. Here’s an example: if someone gives some constructive criticism and you were in animal instincts reaction mode you may quickly snap a come back attack. If you were to take a moment to think “Does what this person said have any truth to it?” You may ACT completely different.
The longer that gap is for you the more questions you’d have time to ask yourself and analyse before acting. Here is the pivotal moment where you can decipher what triggered you and why. Knowing what the trigger was and having the time to break it down gives you a heads up on what may be causing your anxiety.
In the criticism scenario above your trigger could have brought up feelings around “I’m not good enough, I’m not likeable, I’ll be abandoned, I don’t feel safe and supported....” and so on. The triggers always take us back to very primal survival needs so of course anxiety will arise from these triggers, Because our very physical or emotional survival has been threatened.
Once we start realising that our survival in that moment isn’t actually being threatened, and we can comfort our very basic primal needs for security, connection or love within that time gap only us humans have our anxiety no longer can get a hold of us. So slow everything down and Aim to increase this time gap and optimise your chances for getting a grip over your anxiety.
~ By Carla Savannah
|Posted on May 23, 2019 at 3:45 AM||comments (32)|
A common question i get asked is "How do i know whether i'm getting Good Guidance from Spirit World or whether i'm getting bad Guidance?"
Here are some ways to differentiate between Good or False Guidance.
- Feels negative, cold or prickly
- Fear based
- Can feel too far away like an unreacheable goal
- Guilt based eg: “Hurry up or you’ll miss out you idiot”
- Focuses on past hurts or future worries
- Tells you you don’t deserve to be happy
- Makes you feel victimized or weak
- Makes you compete with others
- Delays your changes or growth, tells you to put it off till later eg: “You need to do another course or more study” “Do it when the kids grow up” “You’re not ready”
- Thinking of the outcome of the guidance makes you feel anxious
- Can smell smoke or an off rotten smell in the nose
- Can get a bad or bitter taste in the mouth
- Can get a sharp pain in the head
- Asks how are we different
- Is consistent same today as yesterday
- Feels like a warm hug
- Has a calm and mature tone
- Gives reachable goals
- Is empowering and confidence building without putting you above others or making you sound more special than others
- Values equality of all so guidance won’t only be self serving, guidance will benefit all involved
- Love based, Heart Based
- Is instant
- Focused on the present and now
- Makes you feel as though you are deserving of happiness
- Thinking of the outcome of the guidance makes you feel good and peaceful
- Can get a scent of flowers in your nose
- Can get a sweet or pleasant taste in your mouth
- Is not pushy, threatening or critical
- Asks how are we the same
Remember with any Guidance you receive it's always good to remain decerning and sceptical. Consistently ask yourself "Is this information useful?", keep a note book of all guidance you've received and if over a period of 3-6 months the information you have received proves to be useful then you can safely assume you are getting positive assistance from the other side. You can help yourself filter out any Negative energy by simply saying "I request only the assistance from beings with the highest and best intentions towards myself and for the good of all involved". Furthermore, if you think you may have received a message that isn't of good energy simply say "You are not my thought form leave now!"